First, I want to introduce my sister, her name is Kimberly. I call her "Kim", she calls me "cookie". Why cookie? Maybe you'll think of it as an endearment, BUT NO! Before, i have a lot of pimples, that's why the "cookie-endearment" was invented. Even now that my face is clear and presentable she still calls me "cookie" because she was used to it.
Kim is a registered nurse. She's very good and currently training at St. Luke's Medical Center.
Anyway, enough of that, what I really want to share was our conversation yesterday.
When I'm at the office I saw her facebook status :
| (let's drink!! >:D)|
I instantly felt that she's having problems again with regards to having a boyfriend. She badly wants to have a boyfriend (yes you read it right). When I got home, she looked at me like an abnormal person (just staring weirdly in silence). Then our conversation started.
(kim still staring)
ace: baliw ka na naman! anong problema mo?! gusto mo na naman ng boyfriend?! (you're being crazy! what's your problem?! you want to have a boyfriend again?!)
(her expression suddenly changed into a frown)
kim: OO!! waaaah! nakinig na naman kasi ako nung playlist ko, naalala ko na naman yung mga walanghiyang lalaking yan! (YES! waaah! I've listened to my playlist and I remembered those shameless men again!)
ace: eh abnormal ka! magpalit ka kasi ng playlist!-_- (change your playlist, abnormal!)
ace: nakita ko yugn status mo ah! tara inoooom! bumili ka na nung "the bar margarita" (i saw your status, come on let's drink! you buy "the bar margarita" )
kim: bakit may problema ka rin no? (why do you have a problem too?)
ace: wala baliw! shempre love kita kaya sasamahan kitang uminom! (none, crazy! of course i love you, that's why I'll accompany you while drinking!)
kim: weh?! anong pinagdadaaan mo ate? (*doubts* what are you going through?)
ace: muntanga to, wala! gusto ko lang tikman yung "the bar margarita" (stupid! nothing! I just want to taste "the bar margarita")
kim: woooo!! ano nga te? (seriously, what are you going through?)
ace: kailangan pag sasamahan ka uminom may problema na agad agad? (is it a prerequisite to have a problem first before drinking with you?)
Kim laugh. Then we agreed to drink the next day (today-Friday-April5).
|a collage that i made way back 2012 ☺|
From time to time, Kim rants about her love life. She had a bad experience with her past lover(s).
Sometimes she feels like something is wrong with her that's why guys leave her. She knows her limits well and sticks to her values which may be an issue to guys.
Every time I hear her saying this, I feel sad. I always tell her this: "nothing's wrong with you! something's wrong with the man! he's the abnormal one!", "don't rush, the right man for you will come, just focus on something else".
My siblings are precious to me. It hurts and sometimes annoying when I see them crying or ranting over something stupid (having a sister sometimes feel like a pain in the a**).
All the more, I'm really glad that I have a sister who is always there and accepts me for who I am (and also the one to braid my hair fishtail style and folds my shirt to make the sleeves look shorter haha) .
We laugh, we cry, we make time fly. Best friends are we, my sister and me :)